1. The first point to make here is that any such accuser needs to be extremely
cautious before levelling such a charge directly. The word ‘forsaking’ implies
‘negligence’. In fact the verse could just as easily use the phrase ‘not being
neglectful…’ Neglect is first and foremost an attitude of the heart. I am not
saying that there are not any negligent Christians in this matter. Indeed,
doubtless there are. If any man or woman who professes the name of Christ is
quite unconcerned about the need for Christian fellowship then I would say that
it is either a case of never having been truly born of God’s Spirit or much
worse, a serious backsliding has taken place. If it is a case of the latter then
such a one would do well to read the whole of this Hebrew epistle and pay heed
to its most serious warnings. However, as I have already outlined above, I
believe there are many in these circumstances for no other reason than that the
Holy Spirit has exercised their consciences and they cannot be party to the many
serious compromises that are being made. Let all be cautious in making
judgements. Even if a Christian was behaving wrongly in some matter we must
always remember that motive is of the utmost importance. Only God can clearly
judge a man’s innermost motive.
2. Next we come to the phrase “assembling of ourselves together.” The Hebrew’s
writer was not concerned about ‘religious’ observances or attendance at
‘services’. His exhortation was to not forsake the ‘assembling together’. I have
already detailed at some length how churches met in the context of a proper New
Testament ‘assembling together’ in the study entitled ‘His Church’ (in the Bible
studies section on this site). ‘Services’ – be they of the traditional reformed
nature or even most of the modern charismatic style DO NOT biblically constitute
an ‘assembling together’. It may be that in the ordinary sense you have a number
of people gathered together in one place at one time, but as with all things
spiritual, the physical aspect of things is not the point. Biblically speaking,
an ‘assembling together’ does not take place in the vast majority of those
buildings that people call ‘churches’ (this may even include many of the
meetings held in homes!). Even in many of the more ‘liberated’ places there is
still an ‘order of service’ observed, along with man-led (that is, usually
musician-led) ‘worship’. You’ll notice that this exhortation is in the context
of ‘one another’ and ‘together’, if a church does not operate on this ‘one
another’ level then it is not biblically speaking ‘assembling together’.
3. As has also been shown in the ‘His Church’ Bible study the purpose of the
local church is neither evangelism, nor worship. I shall not cover the same
ground again here, but it is of the utmost importance to realise that the local
church meeting was not usually attended by unbelievers and the biblical reasons
for establishing the ‘assembling together’ are so that the Christians (those
born of God’s Holy Spirit) might edify (build up) one another. If I am not
spiritually built up by the activities of an assembly, and I myself have no
liberty to edify my brother (either by the structure of the meeting or by being
spiritually restricted because of a persistent resistance to the Holy Spirit)
then the whole gathering is nothing more than a religious rite (essentially this
is more of the Old Testament order). There are no ‘brownie points’ for simply
being there.
In summary of 1: To ‘forsake’ means to be in a state of neglect. Only the
individual concerned and God alone can ultimately make that assessment of
someone’s heart – Romans 14:4.
In summary of 2: Those who may accuse someone of not ‘assembling together’
frequently never do so themselves. They mistakenly believe that the ‘services’
they attend qualify for what the Hebrew’s writer is talking of. They most
certainly do not!
In summary of 3: If a church gathering is so watered down to suit the
non-Christian attendees and/or the main portion of the time spent together does
not allow for God to speak, either to you or through you, then there is no
biblical reason for being there!
I shall at the moment refrain from further comment and speculation about why
this whole situation has arisen. There is so much that could be said! However,
my simple aim in this article is to give courage and confidence to those who
love God with their whole heart and at this present time find themselves to be
one of the many ‘unchurched’ contending with Hebrews 10:25.